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The Art of Approaching Review

The Art of Approaching Review

Dating Tips for Guys Written By Girls

I recently read Joseph Matthews’ classic e-book about how to approach women, “The Art of Approaching”, for the umpteenth time. It occurred to me that the reason I keep re-reading it is that I keep gaining knowledge and confidence from it. From there, it only seemed fair that I write a “The Art of Approaching” review.

If you’re contemplating buying this book, you are probably painfully aware that the number one obstacle guys face in the world of dating is just getting past the first approach, then making a good impression. There are scads of other e-books available to teach you how to attract women, how to flirt with them, romance them, and such, but the bottom line is that you are never going to arrive at any of the other stages of dating if you don’t have a successful first date.

The reason I’m writing this “The Art of Approaching” review is that I have absolutely no doubt that nobody knows better than Joseph Matthews how this is the most baffling and perplexing obstruction of dating for men, and what to do about it.

The Art of Approaching Review: an old hand writing

Joseph Matthews’ “The Art of Approaching” has been available for about ten years, and in the interim, it has been revised and updated based on his ever-evolving observations while coaching men about how to approach women. In all sincerity, the first edition of this book was incredible. It gave highly-detailed insider information regarding where and how to approach women, how to end the interaction well, the sort of mindset you need to take on, how to deal with rejection, and many other topics relevant to dating.

Subsequent to publishing the first edition of “The Art of Approaching”, the counsel it offers has become more refined and therefore, more useful. The parts about approaching a woman in specific situations, conversation openers, and using body language are almost certainly the most truthful and useful you will ever find in a dating advice book for men. Some men stubbornly adhere to the belief that this book is only for hapless beginners with no idea of how to approach women.

 

While it does speak to the aforementioned hapless beginners, and does give them far more than a clue, the fact is that any man who isn’t batting a thousand hasn’t truly achieved perfection in this department, and it certainly wouldn’t hurt to have a read! It’s always good to keep your skills at their best when it comes to approaching women.

Moreover, I think that any guy, who has not reach the perfection stage in his ability to attract women can benefit much from this great book. It can supply people with a rich store of tips and info on perfecting their dating skills throughout their lives.

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Joseph Matthews, also known as “Thundercat”, is a wonderful example of how dedication and careful application can lead to immense success. Were you to ever see a picture of him, it would drive home the fact that you do not have to be an Apollo in the looks department to attract women.

After having made this statement, I want to say that any man who believes he’s not “enough” to ever have a chance of succeeding with women, needs to buy this book yesterday or sooner. The author’s personal success story will give you verification (not to mention invaluable advice) that made him one of the most-admired and emulated men in the PUA community.

In “The Art of Approaching”, Matthews shares his own personal “rock bottom moment”, and discusses his sink-or-swim experiences while he learned and mastered the best way to attract women. He talks about personal “aha moments” and the theories that imbued him with the courage to go from being the kind of guy who stays home on Saturday evenings with his pirated copy of a cut-rate “adult” dvd and a blow-up doll to an acknowledged icon of pick-up know-how.

 

In summation, this “Art of Approaching” review highly recommends buying and reading this e-book, then putting the principles it teaches into practice. It is an invaluable source of knowledge, and you can learn more from it with every reading.

“The Art of Approaching” is absolutely a must-read.

If you’re not convince yet, well again, “The Art of Approaching” is highly recommended.

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Things To Do On a Date

Dating Tips for Guys Written By Girls

Let us say that you have finally secured that date with the girl of your dreams. Perhaps, you have dated before and it ended in disaster, and now you would like to try again. The question is what are the things to do on a date?

When it comes to dating, there are two things that you should remember: you should be able to impress your date and it should be interesting enough that it becomes memorable. All dates should be fun and enjoyable, but at the same time should inject elements of love and romance. Let us take a look at some ways to do on a date that will hopefully lead to a long-lasting relationship.

First of all, nothing beats going traditional. This means you can take your date out on a movie, watch a concert or have a romantic candlelight dinner in an elegant restaurant. Make sure that you know her likes and dislikes. If she’s a fan of horror movies, you can be the man she cuddles up to during those scary moments. Take her to watch a concert or show of her favorite pop singer. If dinner out is what you have in mind, find out what her food preferences are. Check out the restaurants in your area that serve dishes that the both of you will enjoy.

Secondly, you can have a date based on her interests and hobbies. Does she love books? You might want to take her out to a bibliophile café. These coffee shops also offer for sale a small collection of books. Is she a history lover? You can visit historical sites in your area. Make sure that you do some research on these sites, so that you can regale her with your knowledge. If she loves looking at the stars, nothing can be more romantic than a trip to the planetarium. By going on these types of dates, you will learn more about each other, your similarities and differences, so that you will be able to gauge your compatibility.

Thirdly, if you want to give your date nothing but the best (and you have the money for it), why not go on a weekend off to another city or location?

You might want to check out the sites in New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, or some other part of the country.

Don’t squeeze in too many sites to visit in your itinerary. Instead, go for the spots that interest the both of you.

Or simply focus on romantic themes, such as walks along the beach and quiet dinners at five-star restaurants.

If you lack the financial resources, you can entertain your date right in the comfort of your own home. Of course, there are certain issues that will make your date hesitate about going to your home, foremost among them is that what you probably have in mind is sex. However, sex should be furthest from your mind, and you should instead establish romance and trust first. You can do this by cooking your own dinner and then enjoy a movie on the couch with a large bowl of popcorn. You can also play some video games (some of the sports games on Wii are fun to do on an “at-home” date) or you can sing duets on a karaoke machine. You might want to consider having a pillow fight, but of course, don’t make it too rowdy or raunchy that it will cause alarm bells to sound in your date.

These are just some of the things to do on a date. Just remember that in order to create that spark between the two of you, let your date be both fun, enjoyable and memorable. This lasting impression will help the both of you to take the next step toward forging a life-long relationship.

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Dating Advice: Do’s and Don’ts

If you love romance movies, chances are you would have watched “Hitch” starring Will Smith.

This romantic comedy has Smith’s character playing a dating expert who dishes out the do’s and don’ts of dating.

There is a lot of fact in this movie because many couples who go out dating in the hopes of forging long-lasting relationships end up not making a connection at all.

Although there are no definite rules that you should follow to be a success at a dating game, there are some basic dating advice that you should observe. You will probably be surprised because much of these advices are actually very practical. It will do you well to carefully practice these do’s and don’ts regardless of whether you are on your first or one-hundredth date.

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Dating Advice – Dating Do’s

Plan your date. Try to find out her likes and dislikes before setting a date. For example, if she is a vegetarian, you might want to check out some restaurants that serve yummy veggie fair that you too will enjoy.

It is a fact that the best way to make a good impression on your date is by being presentable in looks, words and deed. When it comes to appearances, choose a wardrobe that looks good on you. If you are planning to buy new clothes on a date, try it on in the store. Just because it looks fantastic on the mannequin doesn’t mean it will look good on you. A lot of dating experts advise wearing a good cologne or perfume. However, this could backfire on you if you put on too much. The best way is by taking a bath with scented soap. Then squirt some cologne on your clothes, so that the fragrance wafting off from you is subtle and not overwhelming.

Be honest with your compliments. Make sure that you compliment her on her dress and appearance and her intellect. However, don’t be too gratuitous with your compliments as too much praise will seem forced and dishonest. When conversing with your date, always pay attention to what she says and respond appropriately. As much as possible, avoid nodding too much as this can be a sign of distraction and could be mistaken for rudeness.

Dating Advice – Dating Don’ts

Never be late on a date. Being punctual is a sign that you value the time that you will be spending with her. If you cannot make it on time, call her up, explain to her why and talk about whether you should meet at a later time or just re-schedule the date for another day.

There are several “dating don’ts” especially while conversing with your date. First and foremost, avoid talking about yourself too much. Nothing can be more annoying to a date than to hear you spouting of your accomplishments without considering her own achievements. Never, ever talk about your ex-girlfriend (or ex-boyfriend). This sends the wrong signals to your date that you are merely looking for a replacement for your ex. Do not bring your cellphone on a date. It is very rude to have phone calls interrupt your conversation. Plus, it is a sign of disrespect and lack of interest in your date if you constantly have to talk to someone on your cellphone. Next to overuse of a cellphone, do not get drunk. Drinking too much alcohol has the tendency to loosen your inhibitions, so that you might end up saying or doing the wrong things that will turn your date off.

Last but not least, you have heard this advice about “flirting with other ladies” to keep her interested. This is based on some masochistic notion that some men have that women are attracted to men who are surrounded by bevies of buxom bimbos. Nothing can be further than the truth. By flirting with other women, you are insulting your date. Besides, no woman would want to have a relationship with a two-timer. All women would still want to have a man who is loyal to her.

Let these dating do’s and don’ts put you on the right track to finding that woman of your dreams!

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How To Use Body Language To Attract Women

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You can use body language to attract a woman’s attention before you ever say a word to her. If you’re wondering how important body language is in attracting women, here’s the truth:  Sociologists estimate that about 90 percent of our communication is non-verbal. This means if you don’t know how to use body language to attract women, you may be at more of a disadvantage than a non-hearing person who does know how to use and interpret everyday body language.

If you’re ready to do something about this, and want to learn to use the finer points of body language to attract women, pay close attention to these three things you need to start doing right now:

Body Language Tip#1 – First, Get Rid of Insecure Gestures

The next time you’re in a group of people, pay close attention to the body language other men use. See what you can determine about their individual personalities through their body language. You’ll immediately see that such gestures as fidgeting, glancing around nervously, making tentative movements, and slumping all make them seem insecure or unsure of themselves.

When using body language to attract women, how are these guys going to be perceived by women who have never met them? Remember, you only get one chance to make a first impression. These observations should be enough to help you figure out which insecure body language messages you need to lose as soon as possible.

Body Language Tip#2 – Take Up Some Space

Did you ever notice some people seem to take up more space than other people? They may even be small in physical stature, but seem to fill up the space around themselves, and seem like they’re on their own turf. They don’t act like they’re on guard, avoid the presence of others, or constantly move out of the way to make space for others. The body language these men use attracts women, and demonstrates self-confidence and a sense of dominance, which women find attractive.

These men’s movements are usually a bit slower than most, and they appear more self-assured. Observe some of these men in action – famous actors are often good examples – and start learning and using their body language examples.

Body Language Tip#3 – Entering Her Space

The most important, but often the scariest, part of using body language to attract a woman is being unafraid to enter her personal space when you’re talking to her. This absolutely doesn’t mean you should get right in her face and paw her. It means you should demonstrate to her that you are comfortable being in close proximity to her, and when you’ve been speaking to her for a few minutes, touching her.

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It’s amazing how much self-confidence can be communicated through light touches on the hand, playful little taps, hip checks, and other flirty movements that show you aren’t afraid to enter her space. Remember that personal touches like this can be a little uncomfortable to both of you initially, so first get things warmed up by touching her jewelry, her cell phone, or anything else she’s carrying or wearing. Don’t be timid, but don’t be presumptuous.

Lastly, you can read this over and over until you could recite the whole book in your sleep, but it only works if you man up, get out there, and practice what you’re learning about using body language to attract women. There is no substitute for real life experience. Be sure to make mental notes about how every technique you try works. If it doesn’t work, refine the move or toss it. Soon you’ll have a repertoire of body language that does work for you in your quest to attract women.

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Online Dating Tips For Men

On this article we’ll be talking about Online Dating Tips for men, exclusively for men!

Here’s a question: How many times have you read online dating tips for men and then realized they’re all alike, and all ineffective. “Have a good dating profile, bring up something she mentions in her dating profile, and ask questions to which she’ll be able to respond.”?

Only about ten percent of men don’t give up on online dating within three months of their first attempts, because they haven’t gotten good outcomes. If you feel you’re pretty much ignorant of how to actually get a girlfriend online, you’re not alone. Most men feel the same way!

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If, however, you’re still wondering if there are any online dating tips that will actually get you results, let me give you three right off the bat that you can start with immediately:

Online Dating Tips #1 – Don’t Date Online 🙂

What? You’re trying to get a girlfriend by online dating, and I’m telling you not to do it. Not quite, anyway. Here’s how it goes: While online dating is a good way to meet women, but if you want to learn how to get a girlfriend and build a truly meaningful, healthy relationship, you’re going to have to get the interaction going offline as soon as you can.

The majority of online dating tips tell you how to get someone to respond to your email, and how to communicate with that person online. Have you ever built what you perceived was a great relationship via phone or email, but felt nothing when you finally met in person. That’s a sad waste of effort and time.

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Let’s not forget that there are women (and men) who will post pictures of total strangers or pictures of themselves 20 years ago? There’s nothing quite like the confusion when you’ve been corresponding, and finally arrange to meet for a drink, only to find that the person you though was brunette is now gray-haired and wearing orthopedic shoes, and you’re 25? Others simply flake out when they finally meet you in person, for no reason anyone can figure out. Don’t squander valuable dating time online. After establishing a rapport online, the internet is now simply a place to arrange a date so you can get to know each other the “normal” way – in the flesh.


Online Dating Tips for Men Tip#2- Timing Counts – a Lot!

One of the most important online dating tips you can possibly know is that you should send all your emails on Saturday and Sunday mornings. Timing isn’t a big deal to most men, because we are results-oriented. We’re all for immediate action. Women, on the other hand, are the complete opposite. They focus far more on the process a man goes through to meet them, pursue them, and seduce them. They’ve been taught that a man who is willing to make an effort is more worthy of them than a man who isn’t. It’s actually a pretty good rule of thumb for women. A man who isn’t willing to work at all for a relationship is going to be that kind of husband or boyfriend – indifferent and unwilling to strive for a good relationship.

The majority of women involved in online dating get tons of email, and they’re too busy to answer them during the week (unless they’re truly desperate), and they’re distracted by everything going on around them during the week. Most single women go out on the weekend in hopes of meeting men. If it doesn’t happen, they’re going to wake up hoping to find good news in their email as far as dating options go. Oh, look! You’ve got email! And it’s from a man you don’t know!

And now for your final online dating tip:

The Long and Short of Emailing

There are three basic tenets of online dating you must remember: Write fewer than a hundred words. Long emails will make her assume you’re long-winded and wrapped up in self-importance, and she won’t finish reading the email. Next, send a follow-up email a few days later. It pays to be persistent. If she doesn’t reply to that email or the next, give up on that one, though. You don’t want to be charged with internet stalking! Lastly, position yourself as a man of value. Don’t act like you need her far worse than she needs you.

Regarding this last rule, show the same amount of interest or disinterest as she does. If she doesn’t write you back, it’s not the end of your world. This might sound like it would work against you, but if a woman believes you aren’t just dying to hear from her, she’ll naturally assume you have a higher social value than most of the guys emailing her. This will drive her mad with interest!

Now that you’re ready, get out there and get back into the game, using these online dating tips.

Having filled your dating toolbox with these online dating tips, you’ll have a definite advantage over those guys who brought their toolboxes with them empty of anything useful. You’re going to be able to have desirable, socially valuable women in your life, and you don’t even have to leave your house to meet her initially.

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Seduction Tips for Men

Check out these Seduction Tips for Men and you can add it to your arsenal the next time you meet women. It’s guaranteed to work so take action on what you learn here.

If you are in a search for great seduction tips for men, which can really get you from where you are to where you want to be, you read the right article. I can believe you, if you tell me that some of the tips on dating you got before not only did not do you any good, but possibly harmed your relations with ladies. Well, this is the time and place for you to discover the real thing, which can boost your pull with ladies and help you to cut down on the number of your turndowns.

We start at the beginning, teaching you the paradigm shift you need to introduce to apply these seduction tips for men for your good…

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Ladies Do Not Want to Go First

Unlike men, ladies do not like things to be plainly told to them or manifested, when it goes about seduction. They want to have plenty of space for romance and imagination in their relations with men. So, that is the part, where most guys make their biggest mistakes. Women do like sex, no less than men do and they want to be seduced. But, they just do not want to go first and become the initiators, else seduction stops being a seduction. It has to be done indirectly and with much play in the process.

So, making the following three seduction tips for men work in your life, make sure you do not cross the line, when a lady stops feeling the charm of this game and starts seeing herself as some sort of an object, you want to possess. At this point, all the charm of the game goes out of it for a woman and she stops the game, turning you down.

Do not fire her up, make her feel at her ease

Many guys believe, they have to kindle somehow up the desire for sex in a female. Well, it’s a good thing it is impossible to do. The good news is, ladies already want sex. Only they want to have it with someone they feel at their ease with. The best thing to do to move on in the process is to build up your pull with her and make her at her ease. Making her comfortable with you does not start in the bedroom. Work on it, while you are still on the date with her. Give her little touches now and then, sit close to her.

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Do not start right away with too intimate touches. Do something more acceptable to her, get her used to your little taps, first. It really can build up the ground for the next few hints…

Meeting Place – Your Home

Do not start your date by meeting somewhere down town. Invite her to come over to your home. Let her leave her car there and then go wherever you want to. Later on she would have to come back to pick up her car from your place and this gives you a great chance to invite her to come over. This way you will avoid making her think that the only reason you two go to your place is to have sex and she will be much more willing to go there, because she has a good reason to do so.

Of course, by the time, she might want to have sex with you, but this way she won’t have to worry about how obvious it is.

Don’t Pursue Her, Let Her Pursue You

Consistency is one of the worst enemies of men, when it goes about seduction. They make their progress step after step. It all becomes too predictable with no variations possible, no space for imagination and play. Let’s see, if a lady likes to hold your hand, don’t do it. Hold it back for a while. Do not proceed with kissing, when the time comes. You need to be the first one to withdraw, when you do kiss or hold hands. Become the initiator of breaking down any physical contact with her, make it a game of who stops first. Play it until she would go mad gone on you and ready to tear of your clothes.

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Of course, that is not a complete list of seduction tips for men. However, it’s a good place to start and the rest of it may come naturally to you. Enjoy the process.

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How to Talk to Women

If you having problem or still wondering what the perfect way on How to Talk to Women, read the article below and discover for yourself. If you learn it, you wont forget it.

Would you like to learn how to be comfortable talking to women who interest you?  What if you could learn how to approach and attract women, and, using this skill, be able to pick and choose the woman of your dreams, instead of the leftovers of the guys who know how to talk to them? If you want to be a man with many choices in the dating and marriage scene, pay attention to what the experts are saying about how it’s accomplished:

How to Talk to Women Tip# 1 – Know Mistake You Make

If you think you need some advice on how to talk to women, it’s likely because you’re making the not uncommon mistake of preparing ahead of time to go into “approach mode”. This means that when you see a woman you find attractive, your mind and body undergo a complete transformation. You begin to feel anxious and pressured. Suddenly all the things you’d like to say to her to sound interesting just fly out the window, and you’re left there slack-jawed, scrambling desperately for something to say, and terrified she’s going to reject you.

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Have you been in this position? If you have, you probably think every other man in the world feels this way, including the ones who are great at talking to women. That just isn’t the case. Men who know how to approach women do it as an ingrained, natural behavior. They speak to women to whom they are attracted in exactly the same fashion they would any other person they meet. This means they don’t undergo this standing panic and dither and start tossing about their emotional baggage like most men.

What do they know that you don’t, and how can you put yourself in their mindset?

Go Againts The Grain

Most men don’t really know how to talk to women, so most men just bumble their way through. They compliment a woman’s looks, introduce themselves, and then try to guide the conversation towards getting a date, a phone number, or some indication of hope. Basically, most men make the mistake of indicating a burning interest in a woman immediately after introduction, thereby putting their social worth below that of the woman.

After completing this awkward business, they then proceed to “go for the close”. They don’t invest a little of their time to intrigue the object of their interest with a bit of mystery, romance, or playfulness. This isn’t a deliberate faux pas. They’re just men acting like men, going straight for the throat, to “seal the deal”.

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Women, unless they’re “working girls” are more indirect and want their interactions with men to be comfortable, not strained, and have a sense of mystery. Men, being men, hate this. They wish women would just cut to the chase and say what they want, and this is why most men have no earthly idea about how to talk to women and how to attract them.

If you keep doing what hasn’t worked in the past, it’s still not going to work. You’re going to have to do something different, aren’t you?

Master The Art of Communication

As strange as this may sound to you, the secret of knowing how to talk to women is sending them mixed signals for the purpose of building mystery and curiosity. You’re communicating to them that you’re not really all that interested in them, but at the same time, you’re communicating to them in subtle ways that you are interested in them. Examples of this are  light touches when conversing with a woman, perhaps touching her bracelet as if admiring it, or brushing her shoulder “accidentally”. This will intrigue her, but still creates some mystery.

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The art of indirect communication is invaluable, and takes time and effort to learn. Women find it appealing and it piques their interest. Employing this skill may make a man want to bang his head against a wall in frustration, but it is a “must” if you want to know how to talk to women.

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Review of ‘Double Your Dating’

Everybody knows who David DeAngelo is. If you don’t then you’re not in the women-hunting-game. Here is one of his greatest product ‘Double Your Dating’  and check out our full review of it.

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After reading and applying in my life the advices from the ‘Double Your Dating’ by David DeAngelo, I have decided to put together this review on it. I would call this review a summing up of my personal encounter with this book and its application in my life. However, what you get from it can differ much. It is only up to you.

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How to Please a Woman

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Would you like to know how to please a woman, not just in the bedroom, but out of the bedroom, as well? If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a woman, you know there’s some sort of mysterious system to this. Lots of men who don’t know how to please a woman squander thousands of dollars buying gifts and rearrange their schedules to the point of madness trying to please a woman. At some point, hopefully, you’ll realize this doesn’t work very well, but it’s very inconvenient and can be quite expensive. If you’re looking for some sound advice to learn how to please a woman and make a great connection with her, pay close attention to these simple facts most men usually overlook.

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One of the main ways you can please a woman is not going out of your way to please her. It might sound downright crazy, but the truth is, women do test us from time to time to see if we’re man enough to stand our ground, or if we’re weaklings with no backbone of our own. Women want a man who can protect them, which means if they have a choice between two men, one who is always polite but always does exactly what she wants, and the other who sometimes just doesn’t jump when she snaps her fingers, but instead does what he wants to do, she’s going to pick the latter, because he can’t be bossed around. This does not mean you should never compromise. That can be equally destructive. Just don’t act like a trained poodle.

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If you want to know how to please a woman, understand that it begins with your becoming able to stick to your personal values when you know you’re simply being tested. If you can do this confidently and with reasonable certainty, you’ll show her you’re a strong man who doesn’t waffle when making decisions. This implies to her that you’ll be able to take care of her and stand up for her when it’s needed. It also means you’ll be able to be the leader in the relationship and keep it that way. Whether or not they admit it, most women are looking for a man who is willing to take a leadership role in their lives.

How to Please a Woman In Her Heart

Probably the most difficult skill a man could possibly need to master is how to please a woman emotionally. You’re going to have to understand the roundabout way in which most women communicate. Men want to cut to the chase, don’t want to guess what anyone is thinking or feeling, while women want you to be able to read between the lines, and decipher what their needs are, then be the man to fulfill those needs. If a woman says her officemate was a total shrew today, she’s not just stating a fact. She wants some sympathy, and you’re supposed to tell her she’s priceless, and assure her that her boss is lucky she’s on the team. “This dress makes me look fat” is not a statement with which you should ever agree, regardless of the obvious truth. She wants you to tell her she’s perfect and beautiful just the way she is.

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Yes, this is enough to drive an intelligent man mad with frustration, so remember that you must understand which needs are the most important to women – significance and certainty. How can you tell these are the most important? Watch women’s TV for an hour. Pay attention to the commercials directed at selling women products that will supposedly fulfill their needs for significance and security. These companies spend boatloads of money every year researching to figure out what the most pressing needs, or perceived needs, of their customers are.

This means you need to do your homework, guys! Women are going to expect you to know in advance what their needs are going to be, so pay close attention to her wording and body language to determine whether she’s acting out of a need for certainty (reassurance of her importance to you, and that you’re not going to bail on her overnight), or a need for significance (perhaps a reminder that she’s doing a great job of whatever she does, and that her contribution makes a big difference. This one is often very important to stay-at-home moms!)

How to Please a Woman Physically

You’re not going to believe this one, but if you can please a woman emotionally and pass the tests she throws your way, your sex life has the potential to become incredibly wonderful. For women, what happens in the bedroom is the icing on the cake, the outcome of everything they put into a relationship. If she’s emotionally unfulfilled when her clothing is on and the lights are on, you’re not going to seem like much of a man of confidence and value, and you’re going to get what you asked for by your lack of effort – not much.

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It is very important to remember that for men, sex is usually 90 percent about the physical part of the relationship, and convenience, and 10 percent about the emotional aspect of the relationship. Women are usually pretty much the exact opposite. If you keep this in mind, and act accordingly, a happy wife or girlfriend is not going to be able to get enough of you in bed. If she’s miserable, nothing that happens in your bedroom is going to be much for either of you to enjoy.

Pay attention to these three areas, and you’ll find it isn’t as hard as you first thought to learn how to please a woman.

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How to Pick Up Women information is very vital and all men should know if they want to be more successful with women. I’m sure you want to! Read on..

how to pickup womenWould you like to know how to pick up women? If you would, first you need to understand that you’re making an effort that 99 percent of the male competition won’t. In fact, most of them have no concept to go about it, so good for you! The first thing you need to know is that knowing how to approach and how to attract women isn’t some magical gift bestowed upon you by your fairy godmother, or something inborn in you.

It’s quite the opposite, in fact. It is a skill that can be learned like any other, through information, constant practice, and carefully noting what does and doesn’t work. If you’re too slothful to go through all that effort, here are three facts to help you learn how to pick up women:

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Pick Up Women Tips#1 – Go Where the Fish Are

This might sound overly simplistic when it comes to learning how to pick up women, but most guys men are simple-minded enough to attempt to approach women where the competition is fierce, such as bars, night clubs, and every other place women get hit on every 5 seconds by every guy in the place, when they’re really there just to hang out with their girlfriends.

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These places are perfect if you’re trying to practice getting ignored or trying to learn how to cope with frequent rejection. Just don’t expect a lot of good results. If you learn to approach women in places where you’re not interrupting their fun with their friends, you’re more likely to meet with success in places where she’s not expecting to be swarmed by men trying to pick up women. You’ll find much less competition, and women away from a crowd aren’t usually on “high alert” regarding men.

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Number two: Build Trust First

One of the most important secrets of how to pick up women is that you need to be able to make them trust you quickly. How can you do this, when it’s blatantly obvious that you’re approaching her for one reason? Simple! Don’t approach her until she’s comfortable around you. This builds trust that you’re not an axe murderer. For example, sit down near her at the coffee shop. In a few minutes, tell her you need to run to your car and ask if she’d please watch your seat.

This communicates a very subtle message that you’re entrusting her with something, and when you extend trust to people, they’re more comfortable returning the trust.

You may want to do this in a half-joking way, and say something along the lines of “I’m going to my car for a couple of seconds. I’ve forgotten my brain. If anyone tries to take my seat, please whack him with your newspaper.” After this ice-breaker, it should be easier to start a conversation upon your return, and then you can move to the last phase.

Third: Use the “Gotta Go” or “Sorry, it’s time to go” strategy

Once you’ve started a conversation, pretend a friend just text messaged you, and you “have to go”. This sort of imagined interruption creates a chance for you to say something along the lines of “I’ve got to go, but I’d love to talk to you some more. Are you free on Saturday afternoon?”

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Of course, you ask for the date right now, and since the conversation was “interrupted”, you’ll still be leaving her with the impression that you aren’t needy, that you have a life and plenty of friends, and you’re nice enough to talk to her, and would like to talk to her again.

PUA, how to pickup womenPractice this strategy until you get it right. If you want to know how to pick up women, remember it’s a skill you can learn if you practice, practice, practice. After a few times, you’ll be far more at ease around women, and other guys will want to know your secret regarding how to pick up women.